Conflict of interests…
May 26, 2009
The crux of a sugar daddy-baby relationship is usually sex and money. The man is usually looking for sex–the girl is usually looking for money, but this is NOT always the case.
More often then not, a man is looking for more then just sugar, sometimes his heart is even more open then the woman’s is, sometimes if he meets a lovely lady he might fall in love–especially if he is not married…sometimes if it just about the money for the woman she might ending up breaking a man’s heart.
More often then not, men enter a sugar baby relationship simply because they don’t have a lot of time to devote to a relationship, but when they find that right woman…they want her in their life.
This is something that can be avoided by bringing up honestly what you are both open to and not open to in a relationship.
Our website has a new look!
May 10, 2009
Come check out our newly revamped website, and some of our new ladies!!!, you can visit the website at Madamecoquette.com.
We are currently running spring specials!
May 7, 2009
Our normal price per introduction is normally $300, but right now we are offering our clients $200 introductions, and $100 for each there after. This will not last long, so take advantage of these good deals before disappear.
As always, we offer free matchmaking services to qualifying ladies!
We are a good, legal agency alternative
March 26, 2009
We are unlike any escort agency in the country, that is because we do not recruit girls for escorting. Our focus is on matching ladies with gentleman who will provide for them, whether it be through cash or gifts. While it is illegal to except money by the hour for sex, it is not illegal to accept gifts if one is in a relationship or dating situation. Our dating agency has no financial involvement in the gifts/cash the ladies get, unlike escort agencies who take a percentage for every “date”. This means more money for the ladies and less hassle for the guys.
This is why Madamecoquette.com provides a safe and legal alternative for ladies and guys looking for something differing from a traditional dating situation.
No, we are not like The Ashley Madison Agency.
February 20, 2009
In working with clients, several have brought up the Ashley Madison Agency to me, so I went and I checked it out.
For those who have never heard of it, its a site, set up like match.com, Seekingarrangement.com or any other online dating site, but its goal is to hook up people who are interested in having affairs, it has been in business since 2001 and it was founded by a gentleman named Noel Biderman, they have had over 2 billion people sign up.
First off, this site is primarily for married people seeking affairs, while some of our clients are married, surprisingly most are not, most of our male clients are just married to their careers or divorced.
Second, Ashley Madison does NOT screen their clients, so you might as well just go to Craigslist. We screen.
Third Ashley Madison does not offer any matchmaking services what so ever. Its up to you to find you way on the website. All of the people who meet through Madamecoquette.com are introduced via a matchmaker.
Please Ladies, watch out for escorting agencies!
February 20, 2009
I was just on Craigslist today, and I can tell you one industry that does not look like it is hurting at all is the escorting industry, there is a huge amount of ads on Craigslist promising ladies mountains of money for joining so called escorting agencies, some of them even go so far as to lie to the girls stating there is no sex involved. They promise you can make thousands a week, a very tempting offer to someone, but there is danger behind all of that money.
Ladies, be warned. Escorting/prostitution is illegal, not just that, its dangerous, it will put your life and health at risk. So called agencies call themselves companionship agencies, modeling agencies etc but if they are on Craigslist in the adult section…guess what? They are selling prostitution.
Escorting agencies are not required to screen anyone, and some might cut back on it just to make more money for themselves.
Beware:
http://losangeles.craigslist.org/sfv/adg/1042169532.html
http://losangeles.craigslist.org/sgv/adg/1042047630.html
http://losangeles.craigslist.org/lac/adg/1041974035.html
So what are these ladies looking for?
February 17, 2009
One of my most asked questions is ” So what are the ladies looking for who you match up with potential sugar daddies.”
I can tell you it is probably pretty close to what you are looking for.
Most of the ladies that I take on as clients are looking for a sugar daddy, a casual, no string attached relationship. Most of them are not looking for commitment, long term relationships or marriage.
I tell the ladies if they ask as well as the guys not to close their mind to a long term relationship or even a marriage, but it is not really what my matchmaking firm does.
If long term commitment is what you are looking for, there are a lot of great traditional firms I can recommend you to….
Some “Sugary” movies
February 17, 2009
Sugar Movie Picks… ( from www.SeekingArrangement/blog)
My favorites has to be Dirty Rotten Scoundrels, Shop Girl and Gentlemen Prefer Blondes 
AMERICAN GIGILO (1980)
DIRTY ROTTEN SCOUNDRELS (1988)
GENTLEMEN PREFER BLONDES (1953)
HENRY AND JUNE (1990)
HOW TO MARRY A MILLIONAIRE (1953)
MISTRESS (1992)
MY ONE AND ONLY (due out 2009)
THE OTHER BOLEYN GIRL (2008)
PRETTY WOMAN (1990)
PRICELESS (2006) French - Thanks Chloe
SHOP GIRL (2005)
SOME LIKE IT HOT (1959)
DAISIES (1967)
SECRETARY (2002)
KLUTE (1971)
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Despite the souring economy, the business of love is sweeter than ever.
Traffic at online dating networks and engagement auction sites is booming; even New York City is trying to get a piece of the action.
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Courtesy Match.com
Riche and Cedric Grant met on Match in December 2006 and married in May 2008.
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“Research shows that stressful situations, uncertainty and danger all lead to greater affiliation, including long-term relationships,” says Norman Li, an assistant professor of evolutionary social psychology who specializes in mating and attraction at the University of Texas at Austin. “The increase in affiliate behavior happened after 9/11—people connected with old friends, new friends, family and romantic relationships, and it may be reasonable to expect the same things to be happening in response to the current economic downturn.”
For singles, the drive for companionship may become stronger during times of financial stress.
“Just as investors look toward protecting what they have and locking in on a safe investment, single individuals probably feel an increased need to form a long-term relationship,” says Li.
Online Services On Target
Match.com, for instance, saw paid subscriptions rise 5 percent to 1.3 million in the fourth quarter of 2008 and registrations were 22 percent higher in December than at the same time last year.
“People are coming at record numbers,” says Mandy Ginsberg, senior VP and general manager of Match.com North America. “If you go out with a bunch of girlfriends it might cost you more than Match; it’s a pretty cost effective way of finding someone to date.”
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Rival eHarmony.com saw a 20 percent spike in memberships from September 2008 through January 2009 compared to the same time frame last year. Interestingly, both dating sites reported the highest traffic on the Dow 30′s worst days. As the blue-chip index shed 100 points or more in September and October, eHarmony’ page views rose some 2 percent compared to days the Dow gained 100 points or more.
“People look at improving their personal life as something that is in their control on days when the financial world seems so out of our control,” says Greg Waldorf, CEO of eHarmony. “You want something else to do that is positive.”
Casual dating site OnlineBootyCall.com, which saw a 45 percent revenue spike and 60 percent membership boost from 2007 to 2008, is also expecting to grow in a down economy.
“It saves money,” says Moses Brown, OnlineBootyCall.com founder. “People don’t need to have to spend lots of money to impress a girl.”
The online auction site for engagement rings, IDoNowIDon’t.com, has also enjoyed a recessionary pop. Ring sales more than tripled and Web site traffic has quadrupled between September and December in 2008, according to the company.
Sales totaled over $1 million, a 50 percent increase from the year before, says CEO David Becker.
“People look at diamonds and jewelry as a way to quickly solve a financial dilemma,” says Becker. “You need to pay your mortgage or your car bill, or in some cases you need to pay your country club bill.”
Evonne Tran, a student from Evanston, Illin., found her engagement ring for 75 percent off the $4,000 store value.
“I just love the Tiffany [TIF 20.18 
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New York Is For Lovers
New York City, long-dubbed the world’s financial hub, is positioning itself as the new marriage capital. In January, Mayor Michael Bloomberg unveiled a $12.3 million, 24,000-square-foot marriage bureau, hoping to attract couples from the US and abroad.
“The city wants to be the No. 1 marriage destination in the world,” says Michael McSweeney, first deputy city clerk. “We want to take on Las Vegas.”
New York City issued some 66,000-marriage licenses last year, while Clark County, Nevada, which includes Las Vegas, issued 96,024 licenses, according the bureaus’ records.
Although January is typically the slowest month, the number of weddings in the first weeks has exceeded last January’s, according to the mayor’s office.
The process was more convenient than a church ceremony for Denise and Christophe Ungbao, who married on Feb. 3.
“His family’s in France and mine is all over, and it’s kind of easier just to have it and nobody gets offended,” says Denise Ungbao. “And the main reason of getting married is there; it’s just for us.”
In addition to marriage licenses, the bureau sells floral bouquets, costume rings, tissues and NYC merchandise.
“There’s a lot of cache to say you were married in New York City,” says Tiffany Townsend, a NYC & Company spokesperson who is getting married in the city this year. “Whether you are a couple that has $10,000 to spend or if the sky’s the limit, New York City is the type of place that has something for every type of budget.”
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Photo: Julienne Schaer Courtesy of NYC & Company
Former Marine Carlos Sanchez and Jennifer Avila were the first couple married at New York City’s new wedding chapel.
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Local businesses are also hoping to build on the marriage buzz.
The Ritz-Carlton New York in Battery Park unveiled a package exclusively for couples married at the bureau. For $325, the “NYC Nuptials Wedding Night” includes a complimentary room upgrade and two glasses of champagne exclusively for couples married at the bureau.
But for twosomes looking to tie the knot on a tighter string, a wedding at New York City Hall may be the most viable option. A marriage license goes for $35 and a ceremony costs $25.
“It’s the perfect location and perfect place to do something that’s not expensive,” says Monica Pereira, who wed Witlet Maceno on Feb. 3. “And you can use credit credits.”
Some sugar daddy etiquette.
February 17, 2009
Recently an entire book as come out on sugar daddy/sugar baby etiquette, while I can’t write a whole book on the subject, I can certainly offer you some of my advice.
For sugar daddies: respect that these ladies, though you might not be seeing them like full time girlfriends, they are not escorts either. Be generous and respect the girls time, you are not paying them by the hour and don’t except them to be at your beck and call. They ladies have full time jobs, friends, and family that they need to attend to.
For sugar babies: recognize that your sugar daddy is probably looking for more then sex for money. If they wanted that they could hire an escort, they are probably looking to get to know you, spend time with you, make a real connection with not having a full time relationship. Be conservative with your requests for money, and never bring up money on the first date. A man needs to make sure he knows you before he starts giving you cash or gifts.
